My Hair Problem

So my hair has been feeling a lot like straw here lately, and I've recently come across the idea of using coconut oil to treat it. My hair is naturally curly, so as long as I'm not straightening it, it really doesn't endure a lot of heat styling. We do have a well, so I'm dealing with hard water. I really have high hopes for this coconut oil cure, because I've read SO many awesome reviews from people who claim that it worked miracles for them. I really want to try a "cleansing conditioner" in place of regular shampoo and see if it works. I'm ready to have my once-soft hair back! I've got my hair saturated and wrapped up for the night... I'll let you know how it turns out in the morning after shampooing and styling! Goodnight all!